We always like to keep guessing the other persons mood, keep guessing the other persons thoughts, then start to panic, start be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and start blaming ourselves for not being good enough. Experience tells you too much care is the beginning of loss.
The year of the cardamom, who will be the old man. As the flower and the family, the years of the past.
The person who loves is not far away, the person who does not love is the horizon.